“Does Shame, Embarrassment, or Even Feeling Stupid Hold You Back”
- DO you ever feel ashamed that you’re not growing your business like you want?
- DO you feel embarrassed that you’re frequently getting distracted, procrastinating, or can’t get your work done because you know you “should” be able to tackle that task?
- DO you feel stupid because you “know this stuff,“ but yet you can’t seem to get your act together?
- DO you keep wondering why you’re that way?
- FIRST, recognize these are all SELF-judgments and criticisms coming from your critical inside voice.
- SECONDLY, understand that this critical inside voice of yours is WRONG! Always.
- NEXT time you hear that voice of yours telling you that you should know it, that you are stupid, that you can’t do it, that you are not enough, or good enough, or whatever …
- TELL that naughty inner critic voice to take a hike, to go in the other room, or jump off the cliff (the inner voice remember!).
- BUT when you do hear that voice, it can be a signal that you need support, so don’t let shame or embarrassment stop you from getting the right help you need.
RESULT: I frequently see people get caught up thinking they should know something or be able to do something to move their business forward, but for a variety of reasons that they may be aware or unaware of, they become too ashamed to ask for help. Their ego gets in the way. Does this happen to you? Your fear of being judged holds you back from getting the help you need. So not only are you judging yourself for being inadequate, bringing yourself down, you’re also not getting the support you need to pull yourself up.
Stop the negative self-judgment. And then take the next big step, ask for support. Hire a coach, consultant, therapist, or other specialist in the area that you need shoring up.
Ignoring your challenges only delays your success and makes you feel worse. Your life is too precious to waste on negative thoughts and inaction because you’re stuck.
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